It turns out it's worse than that. These same friends had a similarly-situated expectant friend or relative. Her family decided on their own that it would be a boy, and bought it blue boys' clothes anyway. Hmm... but I'm not sure what it proves that when the baby turned out to be a girl, they decided that the boys' clothes couldn't be used and now they're packed away, waiting for someone else in the family to have a boy. If you decide that your "unisex" girl baby "can't" wear "boys' blue"...?
I ended up going empty-handed to the shower because I hated the only unisex I could find and I wanted to take the time to shop better. Today it's looking like the entire mission is a fool's errand. Witness:
Amazon.com >Girls, boys, shoes? Surely....
Apparel & Accessories >
Kids & Baby >
Infant & Toddler >
* Girls
* Boys
* Shoes
Search >I give up. I guess the only way to avoid "gendering" a baby is to let it go naked.
Infant & Toddler >
"Unisex" >
* "Gerber" Onesie with Matching Cap and Booties (Unisex)
Choose a color:
* Pink
* Blue
Oh, wait. Hmm. Dammit.
Update: I'm not alone! Rigid lines between boys' things and girls' things removes options
1 comment:
I haven't tried to do this online so I haven't had these frustrating experiences in this sense. Walking into stores, sometimes the exact same thing happens though. You have a girls' section and a boys' section. And the items are very gendered, if not in color then in style. I try to look for clothes that are green or yellow and ones that don't have gendered decorations (construction tool kit, etc.), but these are not easy to find.
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